Instant Messaging

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Instant messaging is a form of written communication that allows for real-time interaction through text. It is essential in corporate environments for quick updates, clarifications, and informal discussions. For autistic individuals, the nuances of instant messaging can present unique challenges compared to more traditional forms of written communication.

Key Challenges

• Difficulty interpreting tone and intent from text, leading to misunderstandings.
• Overwhelmed by the rapid pace of conversations, making it hard to keep up.
• Struggles with informal language, abbreviations, and emojis that may not have clear meanings.
• Anxiety about responding quickly, which can hinder participation in conversations.

Strategies

• Use clear and direct language to minimize potential misinterpretations.
• Request clarification when messages are ambiguous or confusing.
• Establish a personal guideline for the use of emojis and abbreviations to ensure understanding.
• Practice mindfulness techniques to manage anxiety associated with instant responses, allowing for thoughtful replies.

Examples

• A team member sends a quick message asking for feedback on a project. An autistic individual may feel pressured to respond immediately, but can benefit from taking a moment to process the request before replying.
• In a group chat, someone uses an emoji that is unfamiliar. The autistic individual can ask for clarification instead of assuming the meaning, which can prevent misunderstandings.
• During a busy workday, an autistic employee finds it helpful to set specific times to check messages, reducing the stress of constant notifications.

Action Steps

• Identify common phrases or abbreviations used in your workplace and their meanings to familiarize yourself with the language.
• Set aside specific times during the day to check and respond to messages to avoid feeling overwhelmed.
• Develop a personal response template for common inquiries, which can help streamline communication and reduce anxiety.
• Practice writing out responses in a draft before sending them to ensure clarity and reduce the potential for miscommunication.